A young woman’s first date took a turn for the worse as she navigated the complexities of meeting someone completely new. What began as a casual lunch invitation quickly devolved into a series of uncomfortable moments that would make any romantic outing legendary for all the wrong reasons.
The woman, identified only as an 18-year-old college student, met the 20-year-old man at a café where he approached her and asked her out. She had no plans for the following day and agreed, unknowingly stepping into a comedy of errors that would leave her stunned.
<p“He was 15 minutes late despite insisting I be on time. That was my first red flag,” she recalled. Perhaps even more alarming was his attire. He showed up wearing a stained white shirt, yet she tried to brush it off, thinking he might have just come from work.
Once they got on the train, the date took a bizarre turn when he told her he brushed his teeth just for her. Conversations shifted quickly from mundane topics to declarations of love, despite their barely-there acquaintance. “Mind you, I didn’t even know his nationality or last name,” she said.
As they arrived at their destination, he expressed hunger and suggested they share a kebab, a dish that is relatively inexpensive. Despite claiming to earn well, he seemed unwilling to pay for two meals. “I should have ended everything there,” she admitted, yet she pressed on, suggesting boba instead after he hesitated.
Over drinks, the man opened up about wanting a stable relationship and settling down in the city. The woman found his urgency bizarre, especially since her own plans included leaving the city as soon as possible. “He acted upset when I mentioned moving,” she said. “Like how could my girlfriend leave me?”
Things only grew stranger from there. At a local mall, he introduced her to friends who all spoke another language, from which she felt oddly excluded. “It gave me the chance to explore stores that were way out of my tax bracket,” she noted, as conversations revolved around his social circle rather than her interests.
Once he returned from engaging with his friends, he became overly hyperactive and clueless about his own dining options. After a quick round of mini pizzas at a park, the situation turned odd again when he insisted on her kissing him or giving him a bracelet in exchange for the food. “I was already stunned at this point,” she recounted, “but then it only escalated.”
During a conversation about his last relationship, he made derogatory comments about his ex, objectifying her in a way that was alarming. “He described her as a fat pig, yet bragged about her breasts. I couldn’t believe what I was hearing,” she stated, expressing her shock at his lack of respect.
The conversation spiraled further with questions about her past relationships, which led him to express disgust upon hearing she had a boyfriend before. “His reaction was extreme, and then he gleefully jumped at the fact that I’m still a virgin,” she said.
With each moment that passed, she felt more and more trapped. His fixation on her appearance and ethnicity became apparent when he remarked that her “womb would carry ten of his light-skinned babies,” leaving her baffled and uncomfortable. “Why was he obsessed with my skin color and nationality?” she wondered.
To top off the evening, after a phone call with a friend, she returned to find he had eaten most of her pizza while she was distracted. “I couldn’t believe he had the audacity to eat my food after everything else,” she exclaimed. It was clear her patience was running thin.
The final moments of the date were marked by his increasingly inappropriate behavior. He became touchy, attempted to kiss her multiple times, and even picked her up against her will. “I hit him and told him to put me down. It was terrifying,” she recounted, highlighting the violation of boundaries that she experienced.
With the train station ahead, she felt a surge of relief as it marked the end of a cringe-worthy date. He even suggested she cook for him at his house, a final invitation she had no intention of accepting. “When I ran onto that train, I didn’t look back,” she said, expressing disbelief that a first date could go so horribly wrong.
This experience became a cautionary tale, revealing not just a disastrous date but a profound lack of respect and awareness from her date. “I gained 20 years of bad dating experience from this one outing,” she concluded, reflecting on how much she appreciated her previous boyfriend in stark contrast to this encounter.
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