My Airbnb Stay Included a Cleaning Fee and a Chore List, Then the Host Messaged Saying I Left the Place “Disrespectfully Lived In”

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Ah, the joys of Airbnb. It’s like a treasure hunt — you never quite know what you’ll get. I recently found myself in one of those situations that makes you question everything about the hospitality industry. Picture this: I booked a cozy little apartment in a bustling neighborhood, excited for a weekend of exploration. The listing was charming, with great reviews and a promise of a comfy stay. But little did I know, the adventure was just beginning.

When I booked the place, I noticed a cleaning fee. No biggie, right? It’s pretty standard these days. But what caught my eye was the chore list the host sent over after I confirmed my stay. I mean, chores on vacation? Isn’t that what we’re trying to escape from? I chuckled at the thought of scrubbing floors while I could be sipping a fancy coffee at a local cafe. But, hey, I’m a good guest. I figured I’d do my part and keep the place tidy.

a bedroom with a bed and a plant in the corner
Photo by aes on Unsplash

The Check-In Experience

Fast forward to check-in day. The apartment was just as cute as the pictures, with a small balcony overlooking a lively street. I dropped my bags, took a deep breath, and felt that sweet sense of relaxation wash over me. I was ready to unwind — and maybe tackle a few of those chore list items if I had the time. After all, I didn’t want to be that guest. You know the one. The person who leaves the place looking like a tornado hit it?

As the days passed, I enjoyed the city’s sights, sampled local street food, and even made a few friends along the way. I kept to the chore list, wiping down the kitchen counters and putting my trash in the right bins. I even thought to myself, “Look at you, being the perfect guest!” I felt like I was nailing this whole Airbnb experience. But then the hammer dropped.

The Host’s Message

On my last day, I received a message from the host that left me scratching my head. “Thank you for staying, but I noticed you left the place disrespectfully lived in.” Ouch. That stung! I stared at the screen, blinking in disbelief. Was this a misunderstanding? I mean, I hadn’t thrown a wild party or left pizza boxes strewn across the floor. I didn’t even spill any coffee — and trust me, that’s an accomplishment!

Feeling a mix of confusion and indignation, I decided to respond. “Hi! I’m sorry to hear that. I followed the chore list and tried to leave everything as tidy as possible.” I hit send, and then I waited. I was half-expecting a follow-up message detailing all the ways I’d somehow failed to meet their expectations. But what came next surprised me.

The Host’s Response

The host replied promptly, clarifying that they appreciated the effort but were used to a certain standard of cleanliness. They mentioned that they had experienced some “disrespectful guests” in the past. Now, I completely understand that everyone has their own standards, but it felt a bit harsh to lump me in with those guests. I mean, I literally brought my own cleaning supplies! Okay, that might be a stretch, but you get the point.

This got me thinking: where’s the line between a clean place and the host’s expectations? I mean, a cleaning fee is supposed to cover the costs of the cleaning service, right? So why the chore list? It seemed like a double whammy, and honestly, I couldn’t help but feel a bit taken aback. It’s like going to a restaurant and getting charged for the meal, only to be told you need to wash your own dishes, too. Not exactly the warm and fuzzy feeling you hope for when booking a getaway.

Lessons Learned

In the end, I left a thoughtful review, sharing my experience but also expressing my hope that future guests might have clearer expectations. I guess the moral of the story is that communication is key in any relationship — including the guest-host dynamic. If you’re going to provide a list of chores, maybe make it a little more lighthearted and less like a homework assignment. After all, we’re all there to enjoy ourselves!

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